“What man is he that desireth life, and loveth many days, that he may see good.”
— Psalms 34:12
It is amazing to me of how many people I have dealt with over the years who could not make a decision until they talked to someone else to see what they would do in the same situation.
It is fine to get the approval of a spouse or a parent, if one is not of age, to see what they think of the situation and be in agreement with the choice.
I enjoy a game show on television each morning and watch what people who are chosen to play the game do. There are very few who make their own decisions on the choice to be made to win the games. Most of them seem to rely on someone in the audience to help them make the choice on what to do...